False Expectations Appearing Real

September 30, 2009 by  

You have no doubt heard this example of an acronym for FEAR;

  • F alse
  • E xpectations
  • A ppearing
  • R eal

As long as you give tse false expectations power by focusing on them, they will become real as The Law Of Attraction is absolute, you attract what you focus on or as John Kehoe said; “thoughts are real forces”.

How can one focus on there vision when dominated by what might happen?

Where there is no vision, the people perish. – Proverbs 29:18

Everyone has a unique vision or calling and this is unavoidable. You have two choices; fulfill your unique vision or calling or become the living dead, living your life and business life, day to day just hoping to get by. Why do we avoid our unique vision or calling?

  • F alse
  • E xpectations
  • A ppearing
  • R eal

Fearing that the granddaddy of all unmet needs, that the unmet need of worthiness and our unique vision or calling will not be good enough.

One thing to know about fear; “Fear reaches only to the point when the unavoidable begins; from there on, it loses its meaning. And all we have left is the hope that we are making the right decision.” – Paulo Coelho – The Fifth Mountain

You have three choices, to hope for; to Thrive, Deny or Survive. You will create whatever you focus on.

“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars” – Oscar Wilde

 
About the Author: Simon Reilly is a Financial Advisor Coach, Professional Speaker and Author who has provided training for financial advisors for over 15 years.

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One Response to “False Expectations Appearing Real”

  1. Tiffany on September 30th, 2009 1:02 pm

    Just thought I’d share a couple of my favorite acronyms for FEAR:
    FEAR Forgetting Everything is All Right
    FEAR Finding Excuses And Reasons
    and my personal favorite
    FEAR Frantic Effort to Avoid Reality

    I really enjoyed this discussion topic, thank you

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