False Expectations Appearing Real
September 30, 2009 by Simon · 1 Comment
You have no doubt heard this example of an acronym for FEAR;
- F alse
- E xpectations
- A ppearing
- R eal
As long as you give tse false expectations power by focusing on them, they will become real as The Law Of Attraction is absolute, you attract what you focus on or as John Kehoe said; “thoughts are real forces”.
How can one focus on there vision when dominated by what might happen?
Where there is no vision, the people perish. – Proverbs 29:18
Everyone has a unique vision or calling and this is unavoidable. You have two choices; fulfill your unique vision or calling or become the living dead, living your life and business life, day to day just hoping to get by. Why do we avoid our unique vision or calling?
- F alse
- E xpectations
- A ppearing
- R eal
Fearing that the granddaddy of all unmet needs, that the unmet need of worthiness and our unique vision or calling will not be good enough.
One thing to know about fear; “Fear reaches only to the point when the unavoidable begins; from there on, it loses its meaning. And all we have left is the hope that we are making the right decision.” – Paulo Coelho – The Fifth Mountain
You have three choices, to hope for; to Thrive, Deny or Survive. You will create whatever you focus on.
“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars” – Oscar Wilde
The 34 Step Marketing Funnel – Revisited September 2009
September 23, 2009 by Simon · Leave a Comment
With the DNC List Legislation (Do Not Call List ), we all have to think of more creative ways to eliminate cold calls while working with niche marketing at the same time.
Yes this list looks intimidating. It looked that way to me five years ago. There is an expression that; “If they can’t find you on Google, you don’t exist”.
To get your name to the top page on Google, all you have to is point number 13 on the following list and have the articles publish in the publications that your niche is reading.
- Choose A Niche
- Find A Problem That Needs Solving
- Create A Solution Through Your Products & Services
- Brand Your Solution
- Create An Introductory Letter & Product Sales Pages
- Under Promise & Over Deliver To Your Clients
- Ask For Referrals
- Receive And Publish Client Testimonials
- Create A Referral Card
- Create A Web Site
- Publish An E-Newsletter
- Publish A Blog
- Write Articles
- Create Press Releases
- Master Viral Marketing
- Create A Speaking Folio
- Create A Show Reel
- Create CDs & DVDs
- Create Blogs
- Speak To 50,000 People Within The Niche At Association And Corporate Events
- Receive And Publish Speaking Testimonials
- Prospect Speaking Opportunities
- Get Published By A National Publication Within The Niche
- Exhibit At Tradeshows
- Write & Publish A Book
- Offer The First Three Chapters Of Your Book For FREE
- Strengthen Your Team
- Create Relationships With Centers Of Influence
- Develop Strategic Alliance Partners
- Attract Sponsors
- Integrate Facebook, Linked In, MySpace, Twitter With Your Blog
- Make A “knock ‘em dead” FREE Offer To Become A Client For The First Time
- View Your Niche From 35,000 Feet – Don’t Be Afraid To Travel Afar To Your Prospects
- Market, Market & Market Your Products & Services… And Never, Never Do A Cold Call Ever Again.
39 Blocked
September 14, 2009 by Simon · Leave a Comment
A car is picking me up for the airport and I will be traveling until 8pm ET today to North Bay, Ontario so e-mail will be returned on Tuesday.
Here is a picture of my Week At A Glance “Timanager” Action Planner for the week of September 13th – 20th that includes all of my travel, coaching, speaking, personal activities and time blocks for projects work that are listed below ( time blocks = X for travel time and hotel room time that can be used for project work ).
One can go from “I have too much to do” and “I have no time” to “look at all the time that I have this week on the road to complete creative projects!!!”
I’m on the road this week to speak at Advocis North Bay, Ontario and Advocis Kingston, Ontario on Wednesday and Thursday. I’m flying Monday to acclimatize to ET and flying home on Friday afternoon.
Aside from the speaking and a few client calls this week, because it is a telephone coaching off week, I have 39 Hours of Block Time that I can invest in the following creative projects;
Projects
- Speaking PowerPoint Upgrade & Prep
- Speaking Camera Dry Run
- Optimism Research
- Market The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM
- Film Speaking Presentations For Show Reel Footage
- Schedule Appointments With Speaking COIs
- E-Mail To Invite Participants To The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM
- Follow Up MDRT Vancouver 2010
- Associate To The Sales Goals That We Wish To Attract
- Sales Page For The Leading Advisor Clear Your Roadblocks Workshop & GYM
- Sales Page For One On One Coaching & The Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM
- Article On “Free”
- Upgrade The Leading Advisor Clear Your Roadblocks Private Web Site for participants of The
- Clear Your Roadblocks Coaching GYM
- Order Camtasia
- Work With Kim Black On Marketing & Web
- Mind Map Facebook, LinkedIn, MySpace and Twitter And Upgrade Same
- Reflect On Marketing & Sales Training For Laura
- Decide On IFB Fall Speaking
Routine
- Client E-Mails
- Team E-Mails
- Blog
- Give Thanks
How Do I Know If I Need An Assistant?
September 10, 2009 by Simon · Leave a Comment
Using Microsoft Excel as an example;
Type in every idea, project, task and to do line by line until you Clear Your Mind
Look at the items on your desk, your cork and white boards, do a search on your computer and look over the titles of all the documents that you have created in the last 30 days, look through all of your inbound and outbound e-mails, look over your project files, client management system to do list, yellow sticky notes, scraps of paper, notes on your iPhone or Blackberry … the lot
- Next, review the following categories and ask what other ideas, projects, tasks and to do’s come to mind and add them to the list; administration, computers, systems, customer service, financial, marketing, office management, planning, product development, production, sales, team building and training.
- Next, sort the ideas, projects, tasks and to do’s alphabetically.
- Next, using another column in Microsoft Excel, label each item with the category that it relates to
- Next, sort the categories alphabetically
- Next, using another column in Microsoft Excel, prioritize by A+ – must be done / life and death and then, by A, B, & C priority
- Next, using another column, identify what can be delegated – this will tell you if you have enough work for an assistant
- Next, schedule your A priorities in Time Blocks and delegate for action and take action
Free Digital Coaching Time Of My Life
September 9, 2009 by Simon · Leave a Comment
I’m having the time of my life with the Free Digital Coaching offer.
I’m thankful for this Free Digital Coaching Journey and it is a privilege which helps both of us to meet and exceed our goals.
Both of us you say?
Yes, both of us.
Participation in the Free Digital Coaching offer provides me with the inspiration to create and develop new material and systems so all of us gain from the participant’s investment.
From the Questionnaires, Personal & Professional Goals and Weekly Work Out Logs that I have received so far, I have created a summary of Participant Issues.
Participant Issues
- Client Communication E-Mails / Letters
- Conflict In Office / With Partners
- Focusing On Trying To Survive
- Focusing On What You Don’t Know, Versus What You Do Know
- No Budget Cash Flow
- No Business Plan
- No Client Relationship Management System
- No Customer Service Plan
- No Marketing Plan
- No Personal Or Professional Goals / Goals Are Not Specific Enough / Goals Are Lack Luster
- No Project Follow Up Plan
- Not Getting That One Is An Extrovert/Introvert – You Can’t Be Extroverted All The Time
- No Written Prospect Script
- Moonlighting
- Not Asking For Referrals
- Overwhelm
- Procrastination / Emotionally Retired
- Time Management, Time Blocking, Majoring In Minor Things
- Transition
- Weak Boundaries – Say Yes, When Should Learn No Is A Complete Sentence
- Work/Life Balance
Happy New Year!
September 8, 2009 by Simon · Leave a Comment
Happy New Year you say?
Yes, Happy New Year!
In my mind this is the first working day of the financial advisors or the investment advisors year after the lazy days of summer and it is game on until next summer!
What if I told you that your destiny was in reach and all you have to do was to put pen to paper / fingers to keys and write out / type out your Vision and Goals.
Would you do it?
A better question is; What prevents you from doing it?
It is because of your past experience of The Law Of Attraction.
The Law Of Attraction is absolute; “You will Attract what you focus on”.
Has your Attraction in the past been based on The Unmet Needs Disease?
Here is and example of The Unmet Needs Disease; The Unmet Need of Worthiness generates a Negative Belief like “I am not good enough” and a Negative Emotion like despair.
The Unmet Need fuels the Negative Belief and the Negative Emotion and you are fooled into thinking your Vision and Goals are too much for you which makes you fearful of accepting and writing out your true capacity.
Once again The Unmet Need of Worthiness generates a Negative Belief like “I am not good enough” and a Negative Emotion like despair.
Failing to write your Vision and Goals keeps you locked into the Unmet Need of Safety which becomes your jailer and in a state of fear that you may be transformed.
Playing it Safe is a habit and most give up when they see what can be realized and few will accept the burden of their own victory.
FREE 30 Day Digital Coaching Offer
August 26, 2009 by Simon · Leave a Comment
I’ve created a brand new FREE 30 Day Digital Coaching Offer that will help you to get September off to strong start.
We launched it on Wednesday, August 26th to all of my E-Newsletter readers and I am limiting the offer to twenty people.
I want to give you the first opportunity as blog reader.
Please note that offer includes helping you to set your goals to December 31, 2009 with e-coaching to help you to get there.
If you want to read more please click; FREE 30 Day Digital Coaching Offer








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